No, sealing a paver patio isn't structurally necessary, the pavers and base do their job without it. Sealer is a maintenance choice that helps the surface resist stains and fading and can help joint sand last longer, but an unsealed paver patio built on a proper base will still hold up fine in the Blue Ridge climate.
Sealer works on the surface, not the structure. It's a coating that sits on top of the pavers to enhance or deepen their color, add resistance to stains and fading from sun exposure, and in some products, help bind the sand in the joints so it resists washout a bit longer. None of that has anything to do with the compacted base underneath the patio, which is what actually keeps it from sinking or shifting.
Reapplication timing depends on the sealer type, how much sun the patio gets, and how much foot traffic and weather it takes, so it's typically needed again every so often rather than on a fixed schedule for every patio. A shaded, low-traffic patio holds sealer noticeably longer than one that bakes in full sun all day and gets walked on constantly.
We don't push sealing as something every patio needs, and we'll apply it on request where it makes sense for the look someone wants. What matters more to us is that the base and joint work underneath are done right, since that's what actually determines whether the patio holds up, sealed or not.
More on this from Chelo's Brick & Stone.
Chelo's Brick & Stone serves Hillsville, Galax, Wytheville, Fancy Gap, and Independence, VA. Call for a straight answer and a free on-site estimate.